A new approach to online dating.
With us, respect matters ❤
A new approach to online dating.
With us, respect matters ❤
FREE membership. Limited time only.
(Normally £6.99 recurring).
Have questions?
Read our FAQ, or contact us.
At Traditional Dating Club, we are going back to basics.
Remember how dating used to be? You spotted someone who caught your eye, and you approached them. Maybe you had a chat then and there? Or maybe you just exchanged home telephone numbers? Either way you definitely arranged a date.
At Traditional Dating Club, we want to revive that. In just three simple steps, you could meet The One.
SEE…
Take your time browsing our profiles and see who catches your eye. We don’t believe in computer matching.
SPEAK…
Once you have found someone who piques your interest, send them a polite opening message. Make sure it’s someone you feel you could have a genuine connection with.
MEET…
Once you have exchanged a few messages, we advise meeting for something like a simple coffee in a public place. We really encourage our users to move their relationship to the physical world as soon as they can, just like how it used to be.
Steps To Find
Vetted Profiles
I personally vet everyone who wants to join. I don’t use a fancy IT system or algorithms , I take an old fashioned, just ‘check properly ‘ approach.
Personal Touch
We offer the personal touch and you can contact us at any time. Our dating coaches are on hand to support you in finding that special love of your life.
Traditional Values
We are a modern dating platform that insists on traditional values such as respect, good manners and chivalry. Aimed at creating lasting, fulfilling long term relationships.
No One Night Stands
We don’t do one night stands. Our members are looking for meaningful relationships. We want you to feel respected.
Have more questions? Read our FAQ, or contact us.
Contact Us
Frequently Asked Questions
Q. Can you tell me more about Traditional Dating Club?
A. Sure, just read our About Us page.
Q. What if I join then change my mind?
A. Just email us and we can cancel you.
Q. What if I need help with my profile?
A. Just email us, we are always happy to help.
Q. What if I forget my log in details?
A. Just email us and we will help you.
Q. Will I get a reply to any questions?
A. Absolutely, we aim to reply within 24 hours.
Q. What if a member has been disrespectful?
A. Please inform us ASAP and we will deal with them.
Q. How do you find my match?
A. We don’t, you decide who to date.
Q. Is it recurring payments?
A. For a limited time only we are absolutely free for a 6 month membership.
Q. Will I be tied to a contract?
A. No. You can cancel your membership at anytime. And return at any time too.
Q. How many members do you have?
A. We have hundreds (We are still very new) not thousands at the moment, but people are joining regularly.
Q. Can I see members before I sign up?
A. No sorry, we respect our members privacy.
Q. How do I pay?
A. We accept most card payments.
Do you need help with your dating journey?
We will rewrite your bio, help you to choose a suitable profile photo and send you our ‘guide to dating’ a booklet to help you navigate your way.
Normally £19.99. Limited time only £11.99
What does traditional mean to you?
What about when it comes to dating?
What does Old Style mean to you?
I’ve passionately promoted this crucial message of my dating Old Style Dating site to convey values of trust, manners and respect.
We are old school and proud of it. That doesn’t mean we are old fashioned. There is a subtle difference.
We totally appreciate equality and diversity.
But when it comes to dating we can’t be doing with the modern way of swiping for the sake of it, false profiles and more hook-ups than you can shake your stick at.
Instead, we love an old style of dating – with manners.
That’s got to be a good thing, right?
We have all heard the horror stories about notorious sites these days.
We work hard to be different.
That’s why I spend hours every day checking that people are genuine.
We do not allow profiles that don’t show a real person.
PS: It’s free to join as we build our community so why not sign up and come and say hello?
But when it comes to dating we can’t be doing with the modern way of swiping for the sake of it, false profiles and more hook-ups than you can shake your stick at.
Instead, we want everyone to have a pleasant dating experience.
That’s got to be a good thing, right?
We have all heard the horror stories about notorious sites these days.
We work hard to be different.
That’s why I spend hours every day checking that people are genuine.
We do not allow profiles that don’t show a real person. Our priority is always to keep you safe.
We look forward to welcoming you to our site ❤
To Our Happy Couple
Penny
After so much heart ache and disappointment on other sites, Old Style Dating came to the rescue. It renewed my faith and confidence. I have my perfect lady in Penny. I am one lucky and happy man indeed. Thank you so much. XXX
Richard
Are you ready to shake things up and actually attract the right partner for you? That partner that you just instantly have that amazing connection with?……….Guess what? We want that for you too.
James and Sarah are both award winning, highly respected and experienced dating/relationship coaches. We are honoured to have them as part of the Old Style Dating team.
They have both helped thousands of men and women find love, build their confidence, and help with self esteem.
James is an author of a highly successful book on dating.
Ask Sarah Louise
The Relationship Expert
Sarah Louise Ryan is our resident agony aunt. Simply ask us any dating question. Please note that Sarah Louise does not reply individually. Answers will appear on the Agony Aunt Page.
Singles Events
UK Traditional Dating Club are excited to be planning singles events once again
7 Signs and red flags that someone could cheat
We ask ourselves why do some men cheat when clearly they see we love them and give them everything. The answers I feel are simple-because they can and they truly believe they will get away with it. Some men are of the attitude what she does not know won’t hurt her.
But what men don’t realise is a woman’s radar and intuition are razor sharp and most of the time we know what’s going on. We just can’t put our finger on it
Are you wanting ‘ back to basics’ dating?
The Traditional Dating Club is here to make things really simple for you. Our mission is to bring people together based on traditional values, courteous conversations and real connection. If you’re searching for a significant other and you really want a simple process, we’re the singles club for you.
Dating Terms 2021 (Why we don’t approve)
We are always amused by all these dating terms as illustrated below.
We don’t associate with any of these terms, and that’s why we encourage traditional values such as good manners and honesty.